I'm so sorry for the conflict you are in right now and it is not unusual to be feeling a bit overwhelmed with a new addition, as it is like bringing home a new baby that needs constant attention.
I had one family adopt a puppy from us and they came every week to visit with him until the day they could bring him home. Only a week went by when we received a call from this family that they had to return the puppy because it was just too much for them and they felt it was the right thing to do. The husband had to return the puppy and I have to say that he was in tears and told us that the children & mother were heartbroken as well. Of course this puppy was adopted out to another family on our waiting list just a week later.
Well, I still hear from the original family and they talk about this puppy constantly and how much they miss him and that they wish they would have given it a little more time. This was 4 years ago....
Please give it just a little time before making such a big decision.
Hugs ... Janie |