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Old 02-10-2008, 01:40 PM   #19
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Originally Posted by Buddy-licious View Post
OK....if your Dad did send the email there has to be a reason that he is saying that dinner is not working for him anymore. Either his wife has put a stop to it or perhaps the dinners are stressful for him. When you and your dad see each other ...do you use this time to complain about his wife and talk about your problems? It is perfectly normal if you do because most daughters use their dad's to tell all their problems to but the fact that you only see him once a month it could be a bit much for him to handle!!! Don't get me wrong.....if you are using that dinner time to "vent" he should "suck it up"....for this is the only time he gets to see his daughter!!!!!! But perhaps if you can get him to agree to continue to have dinner with you .....try keeping everything on a positive note. Maybe you could talk about all your fond memories with him!!!
I hope you get to the bottom of his change of heart!!! I agree with all the other posters....he is going to regret this one day!!!!
Oh no, absolutely not, since we started doing dinner, at least I see him once a month, before that it was LESS than that bc of her. But I do not EVER mention HER or my mother. I make certain to not do that at all. I notice he never mentions her either. I BET its her who does not like the dinner out thing, but I dont think he likes it too much either. Hes just not the sam man.
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