Some of you know I'm going through a crappy breakup with my BF of 5.5 years whom I live with.
I came home (to my mom's house) for the weekend because I couldn't function around him and she had me read "he's just not that into you"... I admit some of the stuff is no-brainer... but the thing that hit the hardest was something along the lines of this:
If he wants to be with you and you are a huge part of his future and he care for you and loves you enough he would try anything to make it work. If he breaks up with you and says "it's not you, it's me... I need to get some things straight and I hope we can be together in the future" it means he just isn't that into you. If he really thinks you're as amazing as he says you are he'd NOT be willing to let you go "do what you want while he does what he wants"...
That's my crappy situation and no matter how much I cry about it he obviously doesn't want me back and if he was into me as much as he says he is then he wouldn't be throwing it away to go out on the weekends with his friends.
It's a tough realization... but I'm worth more than that and I hope that someone will realize that
Thanks for listening