That's the thing I'm not always available to him. I go out and do my own thing when I want and if I feel like going and hanging out and he doesn't I go and do as I please. It's always "You wanna hang out tonight" never "Hey I'll be at your house in 5 minutes". I've told him up front from day one I don't want to spend my every moment with you and there will be times I won't to go hang out with my girls and if you ever want to hang out with your friends without me, just tell me it won't hurt my feelings at all. I'm not the type to have someone tell me what I can and can't do and I'm not going to act like that either. It's just tearing me up inside that we click so well and get along so good and have tons of fun with whatever we do but ever now and then he pulls away and I don't get it. It's like he's not sure what he wants. I haven't talked to him today nor will I until he calls (he said he'd call later) but I can't stand the waiting game. I talked to his best friend and he says that he really likes me (many people have told me this) but he thinks that maybe he just overwhelmed because he went from being single for a few years (just like me) to all the sudden having a girlfriend. Hello we're in the same boat!! But instead of talking to me he keeps everything inside for fear of how I might react I guess. |