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Originally Posted by eensor Act like everything is ok and around him be happy, happy, happy! NEVER call him--let him call you and when he does tell him about all the neat things you've been doing and how busy you've been. Don't be available to him 100% of the time either. Remember, men like to work hard for what they get! Don't play hard to get, BE hard to get. Think of the one who broke his heart! She was a real challenge, right? Not that I'm saying you should be a user and a cheat! I'm definetely not saying that!
Whatever you do, if you want to marry this man someday---DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM!!! Sorry to those of you who have live-ins, but this is my opinion and advice was asked for! |
I agree, dont be there at his every beck and call. Make him want you. Ive been there and done that. Im almost 30 and have yet to be married. Yes i have kids but I was never married to thier dad. I have been through hell and back when it comes to relationships. I have been the girl that answers the phone on the first ring, the one that did everything he wanted, the one that made myself into some one I wasn't, the one that waited on him hand and foot and the one that never had an opinion. But then again I have dated: the drunk, the mean drunk, the party animal, the abusive one, the mommas boy, the pig, and so on. Now I am me. I have opinions, I stand on my own 2 feet, I never sacrifice who I am or what I believe in, I always make my voice known. So if you really want this to work out with him you need to still be you. Be the person you were the day you started dating. Dont change who you are.
And like it is said above, DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM....... Again, I have been there and done that.
Best of luck. If you need someone to talk to you are more than welcome to PM me. Im always here to listen.