I feel you on your situation. I hope you're able to get it all worked out. Just tell your ex what an a$$ he is and that until he pays you some form of child support he can't see the kids. If you don't pay for them, why should you get to spend time with them? I really hope you're able to get to take them to Disney with you. I used to go at least once evey year, and I loved it. It truely was my favorite place.
My advice is to get a good lawyer and take him to court. He seems more like a dead beat dad than anything else. Also, you can claim both of your children on your taxes. If you do, you'll both probably be audited --you have proof you pay for everything for them and your ex doesn't. That will also help your case if you try to take him to court again to get child supoport.
I only know abotu all this because my mom went thru it with my dad... he wasn't as bad as your ex (my dad at least paid child support) But they had a full out custody battle and went to court and everything before.
I hope everything works out for you and your kids! |