Maybe she was just surprised and is now regretting what she said. Sometimes we say things without really thinking about it first. Maybe hubby should talk to her about it, I'd definitely let him handle it. I agree, it definitely makes more sense for him to have it done rather than you, especially with everything you've been through. My husband had it done, his words were "Why should you go throught that when you've had to give birth 3 times, it's only an office visit for me". And I didn't have any of the complications you've had. He's such a great guy!
