I think everyone should settle down for a minute and go back to a post put up by admin in the last week. He talked about our actions toward new members.
We are toooooo harsh on the newbies. She asked a simple question--answer it and leave it at that. Make other suggestions about related issues with the breeding, but don't get on a soap box. Maybe some of you haven't been talked down to much in you life, but some of us have, and I would not wish it on anyone.
New people need our support, and gentle encouragement--not harsh words. People, think about what you are posting sounds like before you post it. And think about how you would feel if someone talked to you like you were an idiot. Some of the condescending attitutes on this forum are the forum's biggest problem.
I've waited too long to post this--it should have been said before.
And MEMnGIRL---welcome to YT! |