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Originally Posted by maxs_momma  Ok guys it has came down to this we can't get rid of the bunks because we have 4 girls and have to have them but she has been told that Bella is coming downstairs with us in our room and that we are going to take total control of Bella until she is mature enough to take care of her. (i doubt that will ever happen) i don't want to ruin the relationship with my daughter but i am also not gonna have her ignore me and put that babies life at risk. We are the parents here and whether she likes it or not she is going to do as we say and if she wants to get  at us and move out that is fine but she won't be taking Bella with her i am the one that has taken her to the vet i am the one who has all the vet papers in my name and i will fight her if i have to. I love my daughter but like i said i cannot and will not let her put Bella's life at risk just because she doesn't want to hear her whine and get woke up at night. I am also gonna let her know that when she does have kids they will also cry and wake her up at night and that she can't just lay them in bed next to her and expect them to fall back asleep she will have to get up with them and care for them i tried telling her this about Bella but as you can see she didn't listen NOW I AM GONNA MAKE HER!!!
thank you all for your help and support and for those of you that have skin-kids i am sure you know how hard this all is for me. |
Good for you for taking the alpha roll in this situation! I'm sure Bella thanks you.