What can i do my 17 year old daughter (18 next month) will not listen to me or hubby we told her don't let Bella sleep with you on the top bunk put her in her cage if she whines just walk away she has to be in the cage at night no matter what because #1 it is safe there #2 she still needs a heat light 3# we are trying to crate train her well she tells me this morning that Bella fell off her bed i started freaking out WHAT HOW!? so she tells me that she was whining so she let her sleep with her AGAIN so i am guessing she lets her sleep with her alot
I am yelling by now asking what happened did she fall on the floor? She tells me that she fell on a pile of clean laundry that she had on the floor (she is lazy kid) well i start checking Bella over scared something is totally wrong and she gets all crappy with me and says MOM SHE IS FINE I ALREADY CHECKED HER! well i ignore and check her anyway then i said i can't believe she fell when i was really wanting to say i can't believe you let her sleep on top bunk with you and she snaps back I KNOW YOU DON'T HAVE TO REMIND ME I FEEL BAD ENOUGH ALREADY! I mean she is getting really snotty to me about it what can i do if anything? If i tell her what to do with Bella she will just send her to stay with her boyfriend (the one who bought her for her) and he doesn't watch her at all! and no one is home at all for hours and hours at his house during the day guys please tell me there is something i can do to save this baby from her own mommy
