My heart breaks for you..I can't even imagine if one of my girls did that to me. Teenagers today, are not easy to raise. My girls are 24 and 29 yrs old. My 29 yr old is married and expecting her first child. BELIEVE me when I tell you...I had many many days of pulling my hair out! The ages of your boys is usually when they start wanting to be their own person. Unfortunately for your husband, his son decided to leave. I'm sure that broke his heart. And your son, seeing this, probably thinks this is a great thing. You sound like a very caring, loving, nurturing Mom, I'm sure if your son does leave when he is able it won't be long before he is back....They all think the grass is greener...Mine threatened to leave also....This changed when they turned 18-19 yrs old. Have you thought about counseling for yourself? I think it would be a good idea....
I will keep you in my thoughts a prayers.
sending you a big....
