I don't have kids so I can't say I know what you are going through... but I will say this(my mom's advice)....At some point you have to trust that you did the best you could and have given them a solid foundation so they can make it on their own in the world. And when they are old enough you have to watch them make wrong decisions and stupid mistakes(b/c we all know they will-it's part of the learning curve) and be there for them when they need some guidance. You taught them everything they need and don't think it's all for nothing right now--that's what is going to help them through these times. Whatever happens I wish you the best and am sorry for what you are going through. |