Im reading your post as i do im sitting here crying for the pain i know u are going through...it hurts sooo bad! i wanna say it will get easier but u know i can only say try to talk daily it does help some not the same i do know this as well. ny dd Kristi(Tillys_Mom) on here is my dd when she left home 2 years ago and got married i thought my whole world was fallin apart, i kid u not i cried so much..and still to this day catch myself cryin when i find something she left behind. kristi is not only my dd but moms best friend(i know alot of people say not to try to be best friends with your kids but u would have to know my dd to see why she has a heart of gold and has always been mature for her age could tell her something and she would make the best of it(and is still this way today) we are addin on to our home and we have to move our bedroom into her old room hubby has been moving things in there and im draggin my feet because i know i wont be able to sleep in there
there are days i swear i hear her in there playin and such(some will prob think im nuts) but i guess its i miss those days, the dr told me once this was normal for a mom to do this. this past week her bro moved out so im at the end side again man it hurts! he is so differnt then her tho..i love the boy to death and wish he would give me the time of day his sister does. so i have empty nest as well..and im so in the down mood these past few days, i just wish we could keep them lil forever (like the song let them be lil) kk had that very song played for ME at her wedding...sorry this is so long i just wanted to share the pain does hurt as i know this as well, i will pray for u that days to come will get better and time goes by fast so u can be with your dd again real soon, hugs and prayers to u..
ps..i wanted to add i did get something good out of all this...his name is "Chase Noah" he is the highlight of my life!
Hugs,
Lisa ~Baby-Genes mom
and kristi's too:0)
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Originally Posted by yorkiesmiles  I just dropped my daughter off at the airport to return to college for her 2nd semester of her freshman year. I'm heartbroken, almost as bad as when I left her at college at the end of August.
For those of you who have been thru this, does it get any easier?
We spent every day together since Dec. 21 and had the best time. I'm not even sure when I will see her next. We are trying to figure out spring break - but she has talked about going on a volunteer service type trip. Then 4 days after the semester ends, she will leave for Australia & a special service learning program in Melbourne & classes at the Univ. of Melbourne.
It's just back to me & the yorkies & the Siamese, who is sleeping in her bed right now. Bubba & Roxy made the trip to the airport with me, they too seemed confused and Bubba wanted to go in my daughter's room, as soon as we got home. |