not to preach cause I've been there - BUT - it's the holidays and seems to be a hard time for some marriages -
Remember the things you love about him and the little
everyday things he does - then picture him not there ever again to do them & what your life would be without him
....AND GO MAKE UP !!!
it only takes ONE kiss and an apology to make things right no matter who makes the first move & you'll both be happier for it