hi
relationships are hard and changing rarely happens..you are waiting for him to do the same thing that he wants you to do. change..
he wants more time, more lovey dovey, more attention and cares little that you have more than enough going on and you want him to change, to grow up, have goals and become independent and responsible..
at 19 and only 6 months into it, have fun dont stress over him..as you grow and mature and further yourself he will probably do the same but at a slower rate
tell him to slow down and that he needs to respect your time and space and that you have goals that you will make in life and that he has to respect that and encourage him to do the same.
sometimes its meant to be and sometimes its not and sometimes you both have to grow before its meant to be...
chin up!