I felt the same way OMG did i make a mistake or what. I have two boys and they wanted her so bad but shortly after we got her they put her to the side to play vidoe games( ages 8 and 6). I took her to my moms house and she has 3 poms my mom said that she's using the pee pad and will soon be ready to come home.I keep telling my self I can do this...Lets keep in touch on our progress she'll be coming home this week...Toodles