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mickey3696 · 12-07-2007, 09:41 AM

I am going to chime in on this one because Iv been there.. I feel for you so much. Have you ever heard of Thank God For Unanswered Prayers. God has a plan for you. If you cant get this other guy out of you mind then that should tell you that the one you are with isnt the one you should spend your life with.
I married my high school sweetheart. We were the on again, off again couple in school. It was a game to all our friends to see if we were together that week or off that week. When we were 19 we married had a baby then at 22 we had a 2nd baby. We were never happy. I was always thinking of a guy I had went out with on an off summer. We were living life like nothing was wrong. Just the same thing over and over. We never talked. He also thought nothing was wrong. Well my brother had a friend that called to talk to my hubby one night but my hubby was at work. We talked for a few min and hung up. Well for the next two weeks that guy was all I could think of.Then I was at a store and seen him again and we walked by and said hello, for weeks after that thats all I thought about. We never really talked or anything. Well a few months went by and I couldnt stay with my hubby and I moved out. That was the hardest thing Iv ever done. We had been together since we were 15. He was really all I knew. I too like you felt like I owed it to him to stay. There was just something telling me do it. I had never worked a day in my life, I was a stay-at- home mom. I was scared to death but somehow I got through it. About six months after that I seen my brothers friend again he said he had been waiting for me to figure my life out and asked if I was about there. I told him yes and to end a long store We have been VERY HAPPLY MARRIED for 10 years. We were together for 2 years before we married. I love him more and more every day. We say god had a hand on us. I wish you could see how happy we are. Im sorry this is so long. I just hope it helps. I feel god is trying to tell you something. Please listen to him. If you want someone to talk to just pm me, Id love to talk.

12-07-2007, 09:41 AM	#17
mickey3696 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Hemphill, Texas Posts: 632	I am going to chime in on this one because Iv been there.. I feel for you so much. Have you ever heard of Thank God For Unanswered Prayers. God has a plan for you. If you cant get this other guy out of you mind then that should tell you that the one you are with isnt the one you should spend your life with. I married my high school sweetheart. We were the on again, off again couple in school. It was a game to all our friends to see if we were together that week or off that week. When we were 19 we married had a baby then at 22 we had a 2nd baby. We were never happy. I was always thinking of a guy I had went out with on an off summer. We were living life like nothing was wrong. Just the same thing over and over. We never talked. He also thought nothing was wrong. Well my brother had a friend that called to talk to my hubby one night but my hubby was at work. We talked for a few min and hung up. Well for the next two weeks that guy was all I could think of.Then I was at a store and seen him again and we walked by and said hello, for weeks after that thats all I thought about. We never really talked or anything. Well a few months went by and I couldnt stay with my hubby and I moved out. That was the hardest thing Iv ever done. We had been together since we were 15. He was really all I knew. I too like you felt like I owed it to him to stay. There was just something telling me do it. I had never worked a day in my life, I was a stay-at- home mom. I was scared to death but somehow I got through it. About six months after that I seen my brothers friend again he said he had been waiting for me to figure my life out and asked if I was about there. I told him yes and to end a long store We have been VERY HAPPLY MARRIED for 10 years. We were together for 2 years before we married. I love him more and more every day. We say god had a hand on us. I wish you could see how happy we are. Im sorry this is so long. I just hope it helps. I feel god is trying to tell you something. Please listen to him. If you want someone to talk to just pm me, Id love to talk. __________________ Angel,Muffy,&Buddy