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Originally Posted by TootiesMom  WOW, I am very sorry for your dilemma.... as a child of divorced parents, it was MUCH better for us when they did separate. We were happier with two separate happy parents than two together miserable ones... I know he is not her dad but she can still sense it, feel it, and as hard as you try, she does hear it...
I wish you luck in your choice and will say a prayer for you and your baby girl...
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Mandee, I'm so sorry to hear this is happening
I don't have any relationship advice, but I do have to say this is exactly how I felt too. My parents divorced when I was 12, and of course, it was extremely traumatic at first for maybe even up to a year or so. But after that, I was like THANK GOODNESS that happened because I would rather have two separate happy parents than one parental unit ready to explode! I am now so thankful that my parents got divorced...I know that sounds ridiculous.
But they have both found GREAT significant others, and I could not be happier with their decision. I know it won't be easy for you or your daughter, but I think that's the best decision for you, and as others have said, it sort of sounds like you've already made up your mind...
***HUGS*** to you and your daughter