Quote:
Originally Posted by LuvtheCooper  well, I don't know you, the "old" Mandee or the "new, married" Mandee...but, I do know that for a marriage to work you have to want it to work and work at it. I also think you aren't just happy or not happy, you have to work at that too. To make a marriage work, I think you need to be happy with yourself and no one but you can give that to you.
I think you need to ask yourself what your problems are with your marriage? Do you love him? Is he and the marriage worth your working it out, whatever that takes, counseling...whatever? Only you know the answers to these questions and I'm sure deep down you do know the answers to these questions.
If you don't love him, then he deserves someone who does, and so do you deserve someone the same way. I wish you all the best, and just hope you and your family find their way to the happiness you all deserve. |
I can't put it any better then this!
You deserve to be happy. Take a good look at your life and find what make YOU happy. Maybe you need to make some small steps to happiness...don't start with the giant ones.
You really should find a counceler that you can sit down with and talk through very thing. Someone you can confide in that has no personal agends. Someone who can see things from a outside point of view.