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Originally Posted by grayxie  You are your daughter's leader. You lead by example so if she see's you in this ongoing unhappy situation later on down the road she may think that is how relationship are supposed to be. It sounds like this predicament is killing your spirit and joy for life, just cut out all the "junk" preventing you from the life you want and deserve. |
i agree. but someone also told me this:
her father and I did not work out. If my husband and I do not work out, she will see a pattern. In her eyes, it could look like Mommy cannot hold a relationship. she cannot make it work. she is not capable of working things out...but runs away instead.
so i think about that. and i have to wonder if this person is right. is it worse that i stay in a relationship where i do not love him, or is it worse on her if she see's me giving up all the time? if i lead by example...which example is the least destructive?