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Old 11-25-2007, 06:27 PM   #16
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I can relate to how you feel. My bf and I live together and we have our good days...but for every good day, we have at least 2 bad ones. I love him and I want for us to work, but sometimes I just don't think it can. My only advice is to talk to him and see if you can work it out or if space will give you a chance to make things work. But even if you give eachother space...there's no guarantee that things will get better. You have a daughter as well, right? My only advice is to do what's best for her and yourself. My parents were divorced when I was 11...I wasn't really upset about it mainly because it was better when they were apart...less arguing and sadness. If your relationship is turning you into someone you're not happy with, then you have to stop and think about when you were last happy..and try your hardest to get there again. I wouldn't recommend counseling... and I have a BA in Psych. lol. Friends are the best people to talk to in times like this... especially ones that have been in similar situations. Get all the advice that you can...and then try to find something that works best for you and your little girl.

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