well, I don't know you, the "old" Mandee or the "new, married" Mandee...but, I do know that for a marriage to work you have to want it to work and work at it. I also think you aren't just happy or not happy, you have to work at that too. To make a marriage work, I think you need to be happy with yourself and no one but you can give that to you.
I think you need to ask yourself what your problems are with your marriage? Do you love him? Is he and the marriage worth your working it out, whatever that takes, counseling...whatever? Only you know the answers to these questions and I'm sure deep down you do know the answers to these questions.
If you don't love him, then he deserves someone who does, and so do you deserve someone the same way. I wish you all the best, and just hope you and your family find their way to the happiness you all deserve.
__________________ Delaina  Cooper & Carley |