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Originally Posted by MeganS  That does make sense to me. Maybe you and hubby should spend some time apart. Do you have any friends that you can stay with? I don't know, I'm just throwing an idea out there. But maybe if you are apart from each other it will either make you realize that you really do want to be with him, or make you realize that you really don't want to be married anymore. |
i have thought about this. and yes, we both have places we can go and stay if need be. i have thought that we should spend time apart and see what happens. that is probably what will happen.
right now, things are ok between us. he and i are not fighting right now, it is my bff that is telling me how she feels. and i agree with her. and since she just came out of a bad relationship, she is seeing a lot of the same things in my relationship that were wrong with hers, and she is concerned for me.
but, i have told my husband that if we have the same fight again that we had last week...and the week before...and 2 weeks before...and several times before that....that it is over. period. so we will see what happens.