you are doing the right thing! it sad that your mil will not let you bring your baby with you
i guess she just dont understand the love we all feel for our babies my babies are apart of my family if they are not welcome to a family gathering i would not be going my dh feel the same way ,,my hubby, my 4 kids and all of my furbabies come first in my life and i want to be with them doing the holiday. if someone cant understand that than that their problem.... jmo