I know it is hard to let go of things like this, but in the long run, these little squabbles don't really matter! My live in BF can be so immature and wishy washy sometimes, and I have learned that I always feel better when I just brush it off and go sit somewhere else than getting mad about it. It IS frustrating, but it is so much easier on you to just let it go and chalk it up to him being a dude.
Do you love him? Are you willing to deal with his silly behavior? Does he deal with you when you get cranky and crochety? If you can answer yes to all of these things, then it is worth just brushing it off and not letting him get to you. My BF and I used to get so riled up and frustrated with each other, and now I just tell myself to take a deep breath and remember why I love him. And we fight a lot less because of it. I mean, I still get frustrated with him, and I do try to explain to him why I am upset, in a calm and logical manner, and he still doesn't get it, so I learned not to waste my breath all the time. I guess I'm just trying to say, pick and choose your battles. Things will work out, it isn't anything so detrimental that it will end your relationship! And I know it is hard to cool down when he pisses you off, but you can do it! Hope this helps! Remember, it is just my opinion, do what is best for you! |