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Originally Posted by GG3  What I was saying was your family that knows you and is around all the time know's what to do with you lil one. I know my mom would take care of my lil girl. I don't even have to ask her. I know and understand that everyone can die at a drop of a dime. Yea to me this is a morbid post. Why talk about what you would do and what other's would do? You don't know!!! |
People make WILLS all the time for this stuff! You have to plan ahead with your kids, money, belongings, animals. Its just something that needs to be done wether we like it or not. I hate thing of my grandma dieing but i know its gonna happen one day and she has already told everyone who gets what. IF you have multiple kids they will fight over stuff they want because its your and they want to be reminded of you. So it is good to divide stuff into who gets what. If you own a house you need to decide who that goes to. ITs a part of life we have to deal with. There is nothing wrong with it.
My step grandpa just died a year ago and he told my mom where his insurance policies were for when he died so she could take care of it since shes the most responsible. Its in his will all the money go to my Grandma but my mom was to help her get it. Well when he died and we had to look for this stuff for funeral costs and stuff he apparently moved them (he was kind of out of it around that time) and we found them but they were all accidental so nothing was covered! Guess what we know he has some others somewhere because he promised my grandma be taken care of but we cant ask him because he not here. It something that should have been takin care of before he died.