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Originally Posted by Saleswman  I am just impressed that you have given this that much thought....I will tell you.....although you may not want to hear it.......he probably wont be the guy you marry, so to give him what he seems to want now....will only prevent you from giving it first to the man you marry...make sense..???
Even if you decide one day.....NOT At 15.....to be intimate......then it should be after you have really, really made sure of the consequenses......and in this day.......it could be a death sentence......sorry to say.....herpes, aids.....PID....other really scary issues....just enjoy being 15.......stay busy, think of graduation, football, college, all the things that will keep your mind off of the pressure your feeling....
Good luck to you sweetie......talk to your Mom....or another older female.....they will offer good advice.... |
Yea, I've always told myself that, "he probably wont be the guy you marry" thing. but i was never forced to face it head on until now.
And I dont mean pressure to have sex. He's never pressured me for anything like that, but we've already "been intimate" with the right protection. And we were both virgins. And I've talked to my mom about it. That's not what I'm getting at.
I'm afraid b/c he wants these things not now, but in "a few years" (direct quote from him) and I wont be ready by then.