I have raised a daughter and 2 sons...its awsome that your daughter comes to you with the things ..it shows she trusts you and with this, its very important that to maintain that trust, you treat the information she gives you with care...you sound like a very smart women..asking for advice and thinking this decision through before acting is insurance for continuing this great relationship with your baby...unfortunately the freind that is starting to "cut" sounds like she has some complex problems and alot of times beginning at this young age, it begins in the home. Talkingwith a school counselor is a great place to start. I feel more comfortable with this verses talking with the girls parent. I might also talk with your daughter about ways you both may be able to reach this girl...maybe educating your daughter about "cutting" and having her pass small elements on to her freind in a caring aspect....Education is the best prevention for ignorance and self preservation...Good luck and your a great Mom! |