I am going to call tomorrow and give the childs name. I will not be letting my daughter know that I called. I really dont want her to change and avoid coming to me next time. she is so open with me that i know her crushs name, who has had their first kiss already etc. I don't want to jeopardize that, and I dont want this girl to know it was my daughter and have all her friends turn on her. If that happens she would be upset with me and upset that her friends are mad. If I do it this way it works out for everyone, and her friend can get help. I told my daughter that she should do what she feels is right concerning their friendship. She wants to continue being there for her, and I agree. I really want to say thank you to all that responded, you guys really helped me. I knew what was the right thing to do, I guess I needed you guys to help me see that I was doing the right thing
