Our relationships with our parents can be really tough to deal with some times.
If you have the ability to be better than the situation, then do it. As hard as it is, overlook the hateful statements and inconsiderate actions and remember that this man is the only dad you'll ever have. If you estrange yourself from him because he won't say he's sorry, you won't have accomplished anything and may lose your dad and your dog and possibly other family members who may not agree with your actions. It sounds like he has some problems that may require more medical attention.
You have to decide what the important thing is. Your relationship or your emotional wounds. Those wounds can be horribly painful if we allow it. But there are ways to deal with them and it sounds to me that you are willing to do that. Sometimes we do just have to give in to keep a relationship alive. Since this man is very important in your life I think this is one of those times. I think your actions were very noble and loving. |