I understand completely what you are going through...My son's father owes me about 50,000 and I know I will never see it. He works for him self he owns his own landscaping bussiness, I have heard so many times there is no way to garnish his wages and he has to pay taxes at the end of the year so I never saw a tax check. My son is now grown so at this point I have given up hope that I will ever see a dime of any of the money. When he was little I worked three jobs to make ends meet (two of them I could take him with me). But, then I got very lucky and met my Best Friend and married him, he has been here since my son was five and has helped with everything, broken bones, first car, college...he loves him more than his father ever could.
Do not be nice get what you can raising children is expensive and the dead beats need to help. It should not be just one parents responsibilty. Good luck. |