Oh my gosh, I feel your pain...literally. My daughter is in the same boat. She and her girls live with us while she is trying to finish schoo. Me has not paid her anything for 4 years. Every time the state finds him so they can garnish his wages, he quits that job. Texas brags about putting away the deadbeat dads but all it is is talk. He has been turned into the attorney generals office and even been arrested for a dui but did they do anything....NO. Just like yours he doesn't pay insurance....we do....he doesn't pay drs....we do.....he doesn't buy clothes.....we do. We are retired and still paying to raise kids while my daughter goes to nursing school. Deadbeat dads make me wanna puke