We talked and she is going to the dance so she is happy. She is still cleaning like mad. I gave her a list and told her if I had to ask or remind her to do ONE THING on that list, then absolutely no dance. She is outside picking up doggie poop right now.
Right now I am the best mommy in the whole wide world - at least to my face, before she started picking up dog sh*t in the yard LOL.