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Originally Posted by mistyinca

I was just going to say...I wonder if it is a passive aggressive move on the new wife's part. My own step-mother did that to me. The truth is, though, as much as she may have a part in it, it is her father that has the responsibility to his daughter, not her. So any fault--if there is any--lies with him, regardless.

Whatever you do, though, don't mention your anger about it in front of your daughter. Not that you would, I'm just saying that just in case. It would only hurt her and not him. It might even be best if she doesn't even know about the Disney trip, and he can tell her if he chooses.

you are right. It is his responsibility. It seems that he puts beth's feelings first a lot...and we do talk about it. I am not telling her about it at all. I don't want to be the one to disappoint her.