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Originally Posted by Suzy  That's a bummer that he's not taking Trinity, I bet she would have loved it. Maybe next time!!! I do not in any way mean to defend your ex, however, maybe it's something they've always wanted to do on their own, just the two of them. Sometimes it's fun for adults to do kid-type stuff, but on their own...remember that Disney is geared at adults too, with beer gardens and other more adult activities. As you said, it could also be that they are doing other things while they are on vacation that aren't suited to children, and he may be only looking out for her best interest-she might be bored with the other things they're doing, and he may not want to put her (or himself) through a bored to tears 6 year old 
I know you would never leave her out of something as fun and cool as Disney, you'd probably save it for another time when she could join you- you're a great mommy! |
I understand what you are saying. and I agree...I'm sure they will take her one day when they are planning it to just be geared around Trinity. But what kills me is that they want to swap weekends with me so that they can go to disney without her. i guess i just think differently...I would never do something like that. If i went to disney, it would be for Trinity. I know there are things geared for adults too...but I just know how I am...and I guess it kills me that he doesn't think about her when going there.
like I said in my last post, I am SURE it is beth who does not want to take Trinity. I knew her long before her and Trinity's dad started dating. In fact, she met him through me. anyway...She has never wanted kids...she always said they take up too much of her time. And now that she married him...and he had a kid....it reflects on my child. it makes me sooooo mad. she has such a bad attitude when they have to make the 1 hour drive up here to get Trinity and she doesn't feel the need to even PRETEND to be in a good mood. she is a total B!!! So yes, I blame this on her!!