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					Originally Posted by crystalsmom  I might add to the last post that the patience I needed when my children were young would not be there as you grow older.
 This is  MHO that if a woman puts aside having a child to further her career and she has one naturally or' in vitro' later , once that child is here it   should come first in every way shape and form over career or she  should not have that child.
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  had to correct my typo so you would know what I was talking about.