Thanks everyone! I just get so stressed because my husband just gets to that point where he totally stresses out which totally stresses ME out. Our biggest issue is our basement carpet. I can't tear that one up and thats where we spend most of our tie together or when people are over, so i can't stnad the fact that they cant come downstairs with us when we come home from work. PLUS, we are trying to have a baby and it scares us to death to have our house smell like urine or have a baby suddenly crawl into a surprise, which means they will be penned up even more then. ( and i am a sucker for that- it makes me feel terrible) they just CRY and CRY and CRY.
my babies are spoiled rotten, and it's al my fault
