I have to have a hysterectomy too.
I am sad about it. Even thought we are done having kids, I too would like to have another and a girl would be nice as I have 2 boys. But just always wanted 3 kids. My husband is done though as far as he's concerned and I really think it needs to be a joint decision but still it's been a choice and once I do this, there's no turning back. Wish I could offer some helpful advice...but I'm depressed about it myself