A good friend once told me, "If the devil can't make you bad, he'll make you busy." Romans 9:32 says this of being too busy: "They were so absorbed with their 'God projects' that they didn't notice God right in front of them, like a huge rock in the middle of the road" (The Message). These people had pure motives but the wrong method. They were so busy with the work of God that they didn't have time for God.
If I were you, I'd cut back on calling him as much. Many of us try to live life at about 125 percent, and we leave little room for unexpected interruptions. In your case, what happens if you and him are no longer a couple, Can you handle i? Make new friends, lots of friends...You are too young to be dealing with someone who treats you that way and not like a princess you deserve to be treated like.
You have to learn how to say no to some things. Sometimes people overcommit because they get a lot of affirmation for everything they do. Sometimes being busy also helps people with a poor self-image; if he is busy, you don't have to think about the pain in your life for not having him returning your calls, I am sure he is going by his business and not thinking about your feelings at the moment...Do not make it easy on him to have that power on you!!!
I'm not telling you to eliminate any of your goals. I'm simply challenging you to slow down & take it one day at the time, If he is the one trust me nothing would ever change that...But enjoy your life and don't stress over this you are too pretty and too young.
Good Luck and I hope you guys can work things out |