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Originally Posted by sabsab00  I dont know what it is - everything I do is wrong to her.....She acts like all I do is sit at home all day and talk on the phone....Meanwhile most of the time she comes home and dinner is cooked - and dishes washed, no messes left. But she always finds SOMETHING to point out that is wrong or bad. The other day I cleaned the ENTIRE house from top to bottom...sweeping, vacuum, dusting, polishing....even bathrooms.... You know what she did? She did it ALL over, she re-cleaned everything like I didnt do anything! And I kept saying to her...but mom I just cleaned that....I dont get it!!! I am 25 yrs old - she acts like im 5 - whenever I go somewhere she askes a million times who im going with where im going and to call her when i get there and when im leaving and she STILL calls me I can understand being concerned - I get that - But shell call me like 10 times... And according to her im not allowed to date either! Its like no matter what I do theres always something bad being sad. If I tell her I got a schlorship and my gpa is 3.8 she tells me "why didnt you get a 4.0" I have had SEVERAL discussions with her about it - and she just starts crying and asking me if I think she likes doing this stuff.....and then she tells me that we dont do anything around the house to help her - completely not true. It just feels like shes always the martyr and im the devil - im at the end of my rope here....Am I completely wrong about feeling this way????? |
I am in the EXACT same situation cept mine is a little more... psychotic!! she goes as far as checking my phone bills and calling everyone asking if they are my bf or something...
and demands that she speaks to whoever im with... i need to move out too so im trying to find a good job ASAP!! just try and ignore her.. thats what i do and try not to let what she says get to me.. im 22 btw and this is sooo ridiculous!