[sabsab00]

I dont know what it is - everything I do is wrong to her.....She acts like all I do is sit at home all day and talk on the phone....Meanwhile most of the time she comes home and dinner is cooked - and dishes washed, no messes left. But she always finds SOMETHING to point out that is wrong or bad. The other day I cleaned the ENTIRE house from top to bottom...sweeping, vacuum, dusting, polishing....even bathrooms.... You know what she did? She did it ALL over, she re-cleaned everything like I didnt do anything! And I kept saying to her...but mom I just cleaned that....I dont get it!!! I am 25 yrs old - she acts like im 5 - whenever I go somewhere she askes a million times who im going with where im going and to call her when i get there and when im leaving and she STILL calls me I can understand being concerned - I get that - But shell call me like 10 times... And according to her im not allowed to date either! Its like no matter what I do theres always something bad being sad. If I tell her I got a schlorship and my gpa is 3.8 she tells me "why didnt you get a 4.0" I have had SEVERAL discussions with her about it - and she just starts crying and asking me if I think she likes doing this stuff.....and then she tells me that we dont do anything around the house to help her - completely not true. It just feels like shes always the martyr and im the devil - im at the end of my rope here....Am I completely wrong about feeling this way?????