Someone is afraid of losing her place of status in the family. She is willing for you to be the number one, but your boyfriend is not going to be number two if she can help it. I agree that she needs to be put in her place, and if that is out of your bed, thats it. we love these little stinkers too much some times, but a dog that knows it's place, is a secure dog, and a happier animal. Please don't let my Sawyer know I refered as a yorkie as an animal, lol