we told him that we would let him go on group dates. If for any reason he should brake our trust in him, or his grades get affected, then group dating will stop until trust/grades improve.Real dates will come when he is 16.
Also he is allowed to walk the girl home only if we know a day in advance and that we hear from her parents that one of them will be home. He is to come strait home. We timed how long it takes to walk her home and we are only allowing for a 2 minute delay. ( he has been on time and not going over minutes) Her parents like the rules too.
Hopefully this is good for him till he is 16, then we will have to set different ones up for him!