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Originally Posted by kewtee Oh my god - I missed it again - haven't seen any stupid replies at all...I must be blind...but then again, I am Danish and we have a somewhat different tradition when it comes to communicating.
Most of the people I know can have a heated debate, argue and get really upset and still love each other. So maybe I don't see the posts you are referring to. It might be my own for that matter *lol*
I am sorry if someone felt attacked, but please remember - if someone is doing something that you think is an attack, it might be because they felt attacked and it can be solved by trying to clear up those things 
See - this is - if you don't mind me being a psychobitch - not good. Confrontation is part of life and anger also and we must all learn to deal with that in a loving way that is containing. If you always avoid anger, confrontations etc, you might end up eating more than you need and being overweight, drinking, getting depressed or other unpleasent things - to numb yourself.
Please expresss yourself for you are a very special and wonderful person and those who truly love you will love that side of you also |
Chuckle, I had a Danish flatmate in Ireland, I adored the guy but he drove me nuts with the debates! Still, the mutal adoration continues to this day . . . such a great guy and yes, it was clear that his (as the adopted term in "Irish") "slagging" and debating were nothing more than signs of affection!