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Originally Posted by Yorkiedaze  Your lucky that you find these things out "before" your married. You shouldn't be "looking" for a life-long mate. Just have fun being single. Being single isn't so bad. Living with someone is the hardest job you will ever have, so don't rush into it.  |
you should date nerdy guys....they are probably the ones that will treat you the best
i used to have the idea that I needed to date the "hot" guys. i had a standard and I stuck to it. but you know, they all think they can do better...no matter who they are with. they are always looking out to see if there is something better out there. it's sad. so i met my nerdy husband
yes, i have a hard time being married...because I am stubborn, independent, and very moody. but he adores me. he really does. i'm not saying it's because he couldn't do any better...i'm sure he could. but i'm saying that he was ready for a committed relationship. he wasn't on the look for the better looking person that might be out there. he was very happy to meet someone and allowed himself to love them. and allowed someone to love him back. a lot of the big macho guys out there....they may feel like they love or care for someone...but they won't allow themselves to REALLY feel it...and express it.
i am not trying to stereotype, but that is what I ran into during my 4 years of being alone.
I'm sure there are some extremely good looking, macho men that are amazing husbands.
I just couldn't find one LOL