I to fell for a man just like yours and I to thought he would change, at that time things like temper, abuse and that was kept to ones self, and that created worse problems. If back then there had been doctors for Anger Management maybe what happened to me wouldnt have,maybe not. The one red flag I see that you should really address is Anger Management, NO_ONE should disipline, correct, or speak in anger, we are adults and we need to handle ourselves right. If he gets that tired ( and he will ) when you have children , What about him dunking your child in the shower. Also going to these classes will do you both good, and help your relationship. I think people should go to classes before they get married and maybe the divorce rate would be lower. If I had known the signs the day he killed my cat I would have left and five years later I would not have been left for dead in my apartment, after I left him.
You prayer real hard on this but outside help is needed and I hope you look into it.
I send prayers your way!
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