I have two more comments....one on the crate...yes, it should be a haven, and trust me when I say, "crate," Kobi could not be ANY happier to go to his little room...he loves it...so it is possible, trust me. It may take work, but you can do it, girl.
Secondly, I'll leave you with this quote which is probably easier SAID than DONE, but anyway... "Don't settle for the one you can live with. Wait for the one you can't live without." It sort of sounds like you're putting your happy on hold for this guy (even though you have your material things) and waiting for him to change...
I wish you all the best, girl, and please take care of yourself and those pups. |