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Originally Posted by labrown  Unfortunately, I don't have that kind of freedom right now. We just moved to TX together, because I wanted to move, and he is the breadwinner. And he really is a fantastic, upstanding guy. He just has lapses. Which I know is INEXCUSEABLE, but I don't have any leverage. I have nowhere to go, no car, no job, no money. And one of the dogs is in my name and one in his, and I'd NEVER leave one with him and take the other. There are so many things I just have to put up with. | Oh, that is so sad ... when you are able to, you should get some friends, a job, and some other place to live.
This guy sounds incorrigible ... and that is not a good prognosis for a happy life together ... 
my heart hurts for you and your babies ....
That bath soaking story made me sad, very sad ...
I would recommend a serious sit down "heart-to-heart" with him about what is important to you....
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Last edited by Janie616; 09-05-2007 at 11:48 AM.
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