Wow Iam sorry, but your post upset me also, If my BF or husband for that matter ever did anything to hurt my furkids....LOOK OUT, your poor baby is now going to be affraid and its not his fault, I feel bad for you being in a strang place with no freinds, some dogs just dont like the crate and pouring water on him is NOT going to help but hurt him, bread winner or not, he needs to be more understanding with your babies
I hope things get better for you and i dont mean to make you feel bad, I can tell you already do