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Originally Posted by StewiesMom  You are hilarious!! All those things went through my head!! LOL! I know that he would not throw it in my face, and I am totally the alpha dog in the relationship (I can use that metaphor - afterall, this IS a dog forum!!  )
I think he feels weird making me pay since he makes 2 times what I make - and I'm not making peanuts. When I started talking money he just started talking about how I would have to pay for all the fancy food that I like and I said 'well duhhh' - I mean, of course I would buy groceries! I just don't want it to turn into a free loading sugar daddy situation. That's not what I'm looking for... |
If he wants to pay for the house then let him. But just make sure you pay for something, like maybe things to decorate, food or something so that he and you don't feel like he is just paying for you to live there. I can say I live with my bf, he lives with his older sister and i can stay there whenever i want but i still live at home and he can stay here too, so we switch places to sleep like every other day, or every week, whenever it's convenient. It has def. brought us closer together and i feel that we can def. move in together in our own place if we wanted to. We know each other's habits and nothing that each other do drives the other one crazy. Those are things you have to think about before getting married, if you can deal with each other's annoying habits and get used to them. I wish you the best!